Whose Torah Is It?
We were taught not to ask questions, to feel shame in having a question. He taught his talmidim that most questions beginning with ‘Why?’ (unless they are in the form ‘Why does Rashi or Tosafos say this?’) are more likely than not to be products of the yetzer designed to deflect from a full Torah commitment. In question and answer sessions, he refused to answer as many questions as he was asked. First the questioner had to acknowledge what was really bothering him and how the information sought was relevant to his life. Those words are from an article written about the dean about one of the BT schools after he passed away. Strangely, it is meant as praise, but to me and probably to most people, it sounds more like an indictment. You can hear how this man put people on trial for having a question. The Torah is full of laws that can seem very strange to people in our era or actually any era. Not only that, but Torah literature intentionally phrases many ideas in a strange way ...